Score Assessment: You’re Stage of Learning Is [Procrastinating].

The Procrastinator avoids action and tells himself that he’ll do it later, when the time is right.

He is unsure of how to approach social situations so he hesitates and gets stuck in his head.

If they see a woman they want to approach they’ll hesitate and tell themselves things like:

  • She probably has a boyfriend anyway.
  • I’m too busy to talk right now.
  • I don’t know what to say so I better not do it.
  • What if all these other people think I’m weird?
  • I better not because I don’t want to look like a fool.
  • I don’t have time for women right now, I need to focus on my career.
  • Dating shouldn’t be something I have to try at, it should just happen.

The list is endless! We can always think of a great excuse!

 

Where To Go From Here?

You’ve now identified both your External Alignment and Stage of Learning. Your External Alignment will dictate the strategies while your Stage of Learning will dictate how fast you make the changes.

For example, if you are stuck in a Procrastination Stage, you’ll be much more successful with a plan that incorporates baby steps to help you take consistent action. And if you found yourself in the Nice/Sweet Guy or Analytical/Smart Guy spot on the External Alignment grid, your best bet are strategies that will allow you to become more comfortable dealing with sexual tension so you can confidently express yourself around the women you are attracted to.

For a detailed list of strategies, regardless of where you fall on the grid you can see the Confidence Alignment Kit.

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