To Truly Please a Woman in Bed, You Have to Do These Things
Spend ten solid days researching this subject and you'll come across the same themes repeatedly. The guys who get it right treat it as practice not performance
Feel free to spend ten solid days researching this subject and you’ll continuously come across the same themes. In the same way that guys mistakenly believe getting ahead in life is hard, they assume that really, truly pleasing a woman in the bedroom is some tremendous feat. It isn’t. Why would it be? This article focuses on how to do it right every single time. Remember, practice obviously makes perfect.
Dirty Talk
This takes some finesse. The key is to start small and subtle. If she’s into it then progressively move onward. It’s a thin line, though. This same principle of gradual escalation is what drives physical escalation. The bedroom is just the furthest point on that same continuum.
One wrong or over the top thing can completely derail the entire experience. Start with something easy.
“It’s so wet.”
“Oh my God, you feel so good.”
“That’s what I’m talking about.”
You should let her know you are pleased and really into it. That tells her it’s ok for her to get into it, as well. The second thing is that you don’t want to ask questions. Instead, make statements or give her rhetorical questions.
Instead of, “Do you like that?” go with “You like that don’t you.”
Instead of “Do you want me to do this?” go with “You like it when I do that don’t you.”
Psychologically most people are just going to interpret it is, “you will like this” and they will. Or, they will feel ok about liking it which is just as good.
Getting Her in the Zone
Men are visual. Women are mental. Pleasure comes in waves for her and your job is to ride those waves, not rush through them.
In order to get a woman to climax in ways she won’t readily forget, you need to get her past the walls in her mind, past the insecurities, and immersed in the sexual experience. Understanding what kills that mental immersion is just as important - women revealed their biggest bedroom turn-offs here. She needs to feel like she is both in control and out of control of her body.
That may sound weird, but it’s not. It’s the exact same experience for men.
Men are visual sexual creatures, but women are most often in their minds and in their bodies, feeling their way through the experience to pleasure. It comes in waves and you need to ride them. Some women require more waves than others. Your task it to cause her to experience them with full abandon. Once you have a woman mentally in the sex-zone, your job is half done.
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