Use Intelligence to Dominate First Dates
This is all about dominating first dates with women using strategy and your mind, not your looks, not your money, not your height.
Right, so this article is all about dominating first dates with women using strategy and your mind. We’re going to go over the cardinal rules that if taken into account and followed religiously will lead to far more triumphs than defeats. Let’s get started.
Rule #1) NEVER be Intimidated
No joke. If you walk into the date intimidated, or you see her and she looks ravishing and you melt – you’re likely screwed (and not in the good way). It’s not about being more or less, but neutral. Remember, you DO NOT have to let your internal feelings influence your outward appearance. Keep intimidation sealed up tight. Keep it hidden. Camouflage it with sincerity and being nice/friendly.
Rule #2) Connect and Engage or Bust
99% of women are not on the date because of how you look. They agreed to go on a first date with you because of some kind of direct/emotional connection. Your job is to keep that engagement going and growing stronger – period!
Rule #3) Body Language is Your Greatest Tool
Never ever forget this sentence: Over 85% of human communication is unspoken. Don’t let what she is saying dictate anything, to an extent. The point is that it’s what her body language and the unspoken language between the two of you is saying that’s important.
Have you ever met a guy who doesn't really have to say a word but attracts tons of women? It's not some alpha male thing. It's body language, the most important language.
If you’re buying dating books, you’re investing in the wrong material. Instead, go buy some psychology 101 books. Study up on body language!
Before you say anything or do anything, consult the unspoken language. Train your mind to parcel itself so that you can listen to the words she is saying and follow along coherently, but also tap into the unspoken language and manipulate it. This is exactly why physical escalation matters so much, her body is always telling you something, long before she says a word
Rule #4) Employ the Emotional Roller Coaster
On a first date, you can make a rather uneventful night feel like a gauntlet or marathon by simply using a woman’s emotions. Like it or not, the vast majority of all women are helpless against their own emotions. Once you tap into their emotional side, you’ve connected and engaged them.
Rule #5) Verbal Foreplay before the Real Thing
So, you’re not intimidated but come off as natural and cool headed. Then, you’ve connected with them emotionally and you’re using the unspoken/body language to really make things interesting. To really seal the deal, females respond INCREDIBLY well to verbal foreplay.
Super light sarcasm. Indirect flirtation. Irony. Comedy. These are the tools. Master verbal foreplay and the rest takes care of itself.
Realize that you can literally make a women mentally cum many times before you actually reach the bedroom. It has to do with how the female brain is composed. This isn’t sexist, and countless psychologists agree. Furthermore, when it comes to sex, nothing could be more powerful than the verbal (sex talk) foreplay you use to get the women into right frame of mind to actually enjoy the sex. And if she tests you during any of this, here's exactly how to handle it .
Assessment: One-on-One Coaching
At the end of the day, 100% of men who consult a professional do ten times better than a regular guy who tries to master this stuff on his own. There are so many small things that are easy to miss that a real player recognizes immediately. However, here are the things to consider that can help you dominate first dates.
No intimidation. Hide and conceal it by being a gentlemen and coming off as sincere.
There will be no second date if you fail to connect and engage them on an emotional level.
The unspoken/body language is something you can never afford to miss or be ignorant of. Tap into and manipulate it.
To make a date seem exciting and fulfilling despite the circumstances, take her on a (fun and engaging) emotional roller coaster.
Verbal foreplay is the way to a female climax, and this goes for during the date and in the bedroom.
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